MENDING BROKEN HEARTS

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The decision to love is the easiest or hardest you will ever make. When you love someone, the feeling of being around the person is keen. There's a sense of fulfillment because of the person in our life. Nonetheless, the cost of loving someone has never been cheap. Do not be led astray when you hear that love don't cost anything. It actually does. Love is not for the weak or kids, it goes beyond word of mouth expression of passion. It has a price and only the brave and matured minds really understand purposeful love.

Many relationships and unions have been broken because both or one of the partners could not pay the price of loving each other.
Loving someone is costly. You can't buy love, but you must pay the cost of maintaining the relationship as your commitment is crucial to the survival of the affair. You must remain faithful, willing to forgive, serve and to love through the good times and bad. To an extent, through sickness and in health, for richer and poorer.
Regrettably, many marriages have been broken more than relationships involved with people who are still courting for lack of willingness to pay the price of love.

The decision to love becomes difficult as we grow older. It gets harder because we get heart broken by somebody whom we love. You have experienced disappointment, heartbreaks and so on. Consequently, you find it really difficult to trust people or the prospect of finding someone with whom to share your life with. Most men and women have resorted to loneliness, it gets more challenging to give someone else the chance to love them. I have come to realise that many singles are contented with their lives and have no desire to marry or raise a family If not that our society frown at such life style.

The need to have a meaningful and passionate relationship crave in as we get older faced with more roles and responsibilities. We desire someone who would love us for who we are, and what we have and not for the financial or material things we offer. For more or less people, the hurt from previous relationship still keeps them wallowing in pain and self-denial.

We've all had relationships that did not work out due to one cause or another. Perhaps we made mistakes that drove our partners away or our fiance treated us badly. It can be very traumatic and can affect our lives for some time. Even so, it is better to focus on the future and not what has happened or blame our partners at the end of a relationship instead, when there's breaking up in a relationship, we should strive to determine what lessons we have learned from the experience. We tend to overlook the role that we have played during a break up. Learn to come to peace with your partner's behaviour as well as yours. That way, you can move about easily and not carry old wounds that keep you from being open to prospective relationships.

I noticed that some people at the end of relationship with their partners resort to their careers and close all avenues for future relationships. These are beautiful ladies and handsome men who are working class. I  had a conversation with a buddy sometime ago who was interested in a lady around his locality and he seems intimidated by the way she dressed  and how classy she appeared. I told him that there's nothing classy about the lady. I counseled him to summon the courage and talk to her.  Eventually, he executed and they dated for some time.  Today they are all married, happily. There are many of them walking on the street and you imagine that you can't date them, it would surprise you to know that they need you more than you do.

There's something common with people who have felt disappointment and heartbreaks in relationships. They tend to browse for an ideal lover, someone they feel would not treat them like the previous partner, someone who they feel matches their taste and standard.
There's no such affair as an ideal lover. It becomes ideal when you are willing to love and accept other people's flaws and all. You don't accept to marry someone who's your equal in everything. The truth is that no one is perfect. You must be willing to reconsider the opposite sex that you may have ignored because you saw them as below your level of success. Remind you are not better than him for the simple reason that you have more degrees or he possesses more money than you. Relationship is a partnership that needs two imperfect people to make it run.

When you recognise what you want in a relationship, it becomes easy for you to move on and open to future relationships. Consider the risk to look around you and see where you need to be found, and what you are looking for. If you live in the past, lanquishing in pain and disappointment, you keep getting into relationships with the wrong kind of person. Don't let past events  play negative roles in your life.

It is my desire that you do not have dead relationships lingering, I plead that you let go of them If you do. Start a new life. If possible, do away with relationships that no longer serve the purpose for which they were originally developed.

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