Dating As A Money Spinning Occupation To Ladies

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How Some Women Take Dating As A Money Spinning Occupation

Relationships in the 21st Century has become a myth with the womenfolk having a misconception of what a meaningful relationship entails. For some ladies, it's not really the lack of knowledge of meaningful relationships, but a deliberate attempt aimed at gaining a living, a full-time job. It's very disheartening how some ladies now throw morality to the twist. You enter into a relationship with the opposite sex to exploit him financially. I see this relational behaviour as a lost of decency and a display of poverty. It's a trend these days to watch a lady having up to five men within her circle. I am tempted to know what she wants to make out with the men. This begs for many queries that need answers. Is it possible to love the five men? What Is your relational goal? What If these men found out? I belong to the school of thought that opined that it is the responsibility of a man to provide for a dame he is genuinely interested in but not to the extent that the lady take it as an entitlement. Yes, some people would say If the man cannot cater to her demands. I trust you didn't enter into the relationship for the man to cater for your demands. That's the misconception that bothers me. A man with a genuine intent to marry such ladies despite having the financial capacity may see this as a bad behaviour and would be disinterested in the relationship. Some men placed their love ones on a monthly or weekly earnings. That is understandable as it is a wilful gesture to show love and take responsibility of someone we truly care. However, you would discover that some ladies who are obviously greedy and lack morality still go about having sexual relationships with anyone who have some bucks to throw around.

Reasons Why Some Ladies Involved In The Act

I have sustained conversations with some ladies and their perception of relationships left me surprised. Some of them argued that they cannot date a man that cannot afford to take care of their needs. It's surprising to find out that these are working class ladies and I am tempted to ask. What do these ladies really want? I once asked a lady who shared same perception, I got cold feet when she pronounced that "she's from a poor family and can't date a man who is poor". Purposeful relationship to her is a waste of time. The number of ladies that flock prayer home in search of miracles husbands is alarming, most of them knelt down and prayed as If their lives depends on the prophets. And, I asked myself, what must have gone awry with these beautiful ladies? Obviously, many of them have used their missing ribs for boyfriends and an Automated Teller Machines. My friend Joe was courting a lady, the relationship was somewhat new but they two were already entangled like Romeo and Juliet. He made sure he gave her weekly allowance for her up-hold. On this particular evening after he closed from work. He decided to throw a quick lunch so he invited her because he had a spare time. He offered to take her to some fast food restaurant. She resolved that she wanted to eat at a pretty expensive restaurant, and since he had the money. He didn't mind paying for the expensive lunch date. Joe was surprised and let down. He saw that she was just taking advantage of the situation. She recognized that he was financially buoyant so she turned his offer into a steak lunch. There is no turn off for me than someone looking for a free ride. Historically, the gentleman has been responsible for other expenses. Even so, after a few dates, guys get fed up of always paying. I personally appreciate it when the lady offer to pay at some period. You can't pay for everything as the guy forever. If the lady does not offer to buy at least a round of drinks by the fourth date, you may have to watch out, because she is clearly expecting you to pay for everything in the long-run.

How Men Think About Money And Dating
At the beginning, men usually do not care. Personally, I do not care at all at the first engagement. Men only want to get laid and have fun. In the long run, money becomes everything. It also depends on the kind of man. Some men are willing to spend their paychecks on dating while others sceptical. It's good to pay for dates, but when it becomes a project seeking a patron to finance and be on the hook for every expense. It becomes bad.

How Important Is Money When It Comes To Dating

When you are serious, money becomes everything. It influences what you do for fun, what you eat, where you live, and how you live. It is the determining factors in every decision that you make as a couple. If you are broke, your girlfriend with expensive taste might find it unattractive. It is advisable to have the money talk before you get serious with the relationship. It's not comfortable and budgets aren't the best types of dirty talk, but you need to settle this to know where both partners stand.

Do Not Conform To Someone Else Standards 

You do not bear to compromise who you are. You hold to remember that it's your life. Friends will come and pass away, romantic partners will enter, stick around, and then turn into complete strangers. That's the obvious. At the close of the day, you have to do what's best for you. You can't cast all of your goals out of the window because your current partner has a different view. For example, I have a friend who disappears whenever he finds a new girlfriend. He gave him everything, doesn't respond to his allies, and spends all his money on the new date. Then when it ends, he's confused and frustrated. It's good to be a little selfish sometimes. You have to do what's best for you. Money is important when it comes to your relationships. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise.

Dating As A Financial Support System

It is now common among the women folks to ask their friends who request for some kind of assistance If they don't have boyfriends. They think the man should be there whenever such needs arose. Moreover, what these ladies failed to understand is that men would never take you seriously, and because most men just want to catch fun, they men give you all the money you desire to get you laid. The man might come with a good intention to date you and probably take the relationship to the next level,  but when he observed that all you want is his money, he plays along but changes his first intention. Often times, these ladies get dumped and they start crying that men are wicked and untrusted. The man understands that you traded with him, he offers you what you want and you give what you have in exchange, and he moves on.

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